Welcome twinhope and starshyne, T2L look at the great thread you started here! Twinhope sounds like you are making some progress. I agree with Starshyne, we can always hold ourselves with dignity and hold our heads high. We have to stop being victims. Tonight I came home and H was here. We ate then I took off for my walk on the beach. I think he wanted to have one of his chats about apts, finances and I just left and took the wind out of his sails. I am steering clear of him. Then my D15's teacher called wanting to make sure her homework was done. Found out that she only turned in 3 out of 4 homework assignments and she does not accept late papers. This is a first for my D. Is this having a negative effect on her already? I am very concerned. I went in and told H. He called her in and told her he was mad. Something to bring up to the MC tomorrow. Doesn't H realize that this will impact her life. D is a really good kid and he will take this away from her. I have to find the words so he will not think I am blaming him (I am!) D is worrying about him going out all the time and drinking. She would be horrified if she found out about OW. It is sad. More reason to keep up the DB. T2L how is your son doing tonight? I keep thinking about your post. I know you will guide him in spite of his H. Marisol, tomorrow will be better. it is one day. Another group hug {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
