W emailed me that she's deducting what she spent on kids school supplies from her monthly check to me. She's required to give me a check each month for various things that we share.
The cost of the kids school supplies were almost $400. I think its really excessive. I mean all they need are a bunch of things that cost a max a few bucks each. And, this type of expense is not one that's in the "shared" category. She just automatically deducted $200 from her check and she's late with the check.
Then, she passed me in the car leaving the golf course. I had dropped my son there to practice. He ran into mom, with another guy. She told him they were having "lunch" in the bar. It was 5pm. Uh huh.
So, my L told me she could reply to her L re: the school supply issue. I told her I would handle it.
I feel sort of obligated to share the cost. But $400 is ridiculous. I feel she's taking advantage of me.
If I confront her about it, of course she will get pissed. But its not right. Plus, I'm pissed my son may have figured out his mother was on some sort of date.
Do I confront her on the expense, or let her know I don't agree with how she did it, but will split it with her?
