Hiya Puppy and Ima,
I have absolutely no intentions of moving out. Never had.
I wont walk out on my kids. She knows this.
My state is one of waiting, watching, same as it has been for the past 3 years. I have my moments as I'm sure we all do but I stand for my marriage because not only because of the kids but because I made a promise to her if front of God and our families.
I wont break that promise altho Ive been tempted too many times.
She wants me to walk and I wont, she knows this.

While I stand and continue to work on me ( I worked out again today at the gym \:\) )
I'm somewhat confused as to letting her have her cake and eat it too. I know I cant confront her about the OM or anything but how do I walk the fine line and not be the doormat?

Gman
Me 40
W 30
kids
B 11
B 10
D 8
Been here off and on since 06.
PA Confirmed Dec 08..
With God, anything is possible.
Do or do not there is no try.
Sometimes you have to roll the hard six...