The his needs/her needs list is really helpful. I think when we were both in Boston he was pretty satisfied with everything, but I know since I moved to atlanta he was totally sexually unfulfilled. He also complained to me that he needed more recreational companionship (he said all we did was watch LOST and do specific sexual things he found unfulfilling), about my attractiveness (he said he was sad that he only got to see me wearing yoga pants all the time). Domestic support is harder b/c that has more to do with his roommate than me.
I guess admiration I can do from afar. It's interesting, I was REALLY laying on the admiration at the end of our last lunch, after he started acting weird. So I don't know if it made him feel weirder or if he was already weirded out by the intrinsic weirdness of the situation. ???
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You could try seducing him in a way to show him that you are still interested in a relationship? Definitely next time you need to touch him more in a flirtatious way. Even if he doesnt respond it seems like that might be a 180 for you?
I'm not sure I even know how to do this anymore!!! Seriously I have trained myself not to touch him at all unless initated. Do I need to practice stroking my cleavage? Do I need to stroke... his cleavage? I mean would it be OK if I ... touched his hand or something? It would be a total 180 for me but maybe it would just make him run away??? What are flirtatious ways to touch someone that you're not dating yet? ????? I need HELP!
