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Time to start another thread.

The trail of woe gets a little longer:
King of Pain
King of Pain, 2
If I Could Change The World...
Used To The Pain
She'll Think Of Me
Walk It Off
Winner At A Losing Game
Better Now
Love Don't Live Here Anymore

House of Blues talkin'...

Worried Life Blues
by Maceo Merryweather

Oh, lordy lord, oh, lordy lord.
It hurts me so bad for us to part.
But someday, baby,
I ain't gonna worry my life anymore.

You're on my mind every place I go.
How much I love you, nobody know.
Yeah, someday, babe,
I ain't gonna worry my life anymore.

So many days since you went away.
I've had to worry both night and day.
Yeah, but someday, babe,
I ain't gonna worry my life anymore.

So many nights since you've been gone.
I've been worried, grieving my life alone.
Yeah, but someday, babe,
I ain't gonna worry my life anymore.

So that's my story and this is all I've got to say to you:
Bye bye, baby, I dont care what you do.
'cause someday, darling,
I won't have to worry my life anymore.

Oh, lordy lord, oh, lordy lord.
It hurts me so bad for us to part.
Oh, but someday, baby,
I ain't gonna worry my life anymore.


Ahhh, yeah, ... that's a right nice cover by Misters B. B. King and Eric Clapton.
...anyhow, the band's takin' a break now. Just in time... as the bar is now open.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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Strawberry daquiri pretty please!!!

You may NOT have a drink, mister. Go take a Pepcid. ;\) MWAH!

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I'm in and I'm thirsty so...............I'll have whatever your serving!

Hope your weekend was a good one and that the week brings you more of the same..........

Love,
Bethie

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Drat!!!!! That lush lwb beat me to the punch! er...the booze!

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I would always let you have the punch first...unless of course it was spiked with booze....

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You ladies can have what you please. No probs. But the boss upstairs has told me to lay off the sauce myself. At least 'til He gets me past this scrape. Anyways it's bad for business to have the barkeep inebriated more than the patrons.

Yo, ho, drink up, me hearties!


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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Took S7 to his first Cub Scouts meeting last night, got assigned to his den. I think he'll do just fine if he can manage to stay focused. (I can't get over how much bigger he is physically that the other boys his age and grade.) I really like how much participation I am seeing so far from the other parents in S7's den.

I saw a Gastroenterologist today, after a referral from my GP yesterday. I go in for an endoscopy on Thursday morning. W automatically assumed she would be the one to drive me to and from the appointment, since I will have to be sedated and cannot drive myself. She did ask if I had anyone else in mind to help me out, but with the expectation I would say I did not.

I am somewhat ambivalent about that. I'd rather that I no longer put myself in the position of relying on her for a favor, or anything for that matter. I can't really ask anyone else I know, friends or co-workers, to take off time from work on such short notice. W does have a flexible schedule. And not having extended family near really sucks.

<Sigh> I am having to swallow my pride. The lump in my throat could be that pride or something worse. At least she's being magnanimous enough to offer, for which I am thankful -- because given everything else, I would not have been surprised if she had left me to my own devices. In fact, I had expected that.

So much for appearing to be the better option, huh?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

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because given everything else, I would not have been surprised if she had left me to my own devices.


I am pleased she offered. She cares about your well being, about you being healthy for your kiddos. Beyond that, who knows, we all know she would never admit it.

Take her up on it.

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So much for appearing to be the better option, huh?


What do you mean by this?

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So much for appearing to be the better option, huh?


What do you mean by this?


I just mean that, if I were still DB'ing, the objective would be to present myself as the better catch between me and the OM. Being an obvious nervous wreck and a not-quite-so put-together adult male with a weakened ability to handle stress, not to mention still being dependent on her for help and not having any one friend close enough to call upon, then I wouldn't appear so much "the catch". My "stock value" will have thus depreciated in her view.

I mean, the OM is not forced to lean on her for such aide. So he doesn't come off as a "charity case." That's all.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
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Saying a prayer for your tests.


NoCode: That is awesome advice.


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Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
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