Forrest, this is so true. The answer is the realization, the truth behind the lie, the needle in the haystack of confusion. I'm looking for the answers now, and when/as I find them, I begin to see the reasons for letting go...of my husband.
AmyC, Thank you for your comments on this board. I did ask you to check in on me, but I realize now that you are writing all the answers for us. Thank you for doing this. I did notice you are on the boards more infrequently right now, and it is because you are writing. I will be here when you have it written.
Also, thank you for the two answers you just gave me, the negative treatment and the ways in which I spoke to my husband, "the guilt, shame and self-punishment," etc.
I am glad for this thread; thank you to Bridgestone.
Peace, peace, peace, poet
Poet, you are welcome! Bridgestone is here to help! LOL
