Last summer, when we would spend time together, I would watch him while he was talking and think "God, work on us! Stop seeing OW!" while I was pretending to listen. I couldn't even focus. Last night, I was just listening.
Man I know this feeling as well. I wither missed whole conversations when he would speak or I purposely blocked them out because they had no relevance to what was happening to our marriage. It takes us a while but we become numb as well. I guess that's why they say that in the end what happens is usually up to us.
