Also, can I ask you a few questions?

What scared you into leaving?

What made you turn the corner and decide the relationship and family was worth it?

Was there anything that would have helped you "see" the situation more clearly?

Did your family/friends influence you at all in your decision?

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D