Hi Robert
Welcome!
Figs right a month is such a short amount of time. You sound to me you are on the right track with what you are doing, spending time w/ family and friends, VERY important! Keep doing that!
Take up any offers to go do things, or meet new people.
Join a club maybe or work activity.

I too wanted to bad to fastforward everything in the begining and get over the hurt, but believe me it does go away and you will be so amazed and proud of how strong you will end up

You sound like a great dad and those kids alone will help you through!

oh and I like your name \:\)


Be Happy for this Moment,
This Moment is your Life