I think it's simply how they handle their guilt. They project all the problems on us, claim to be completely innocent victims, and if they can't come up with a fault in us they'll manufacture one, no matter how outlandish it is.
I agree , that whole eposode was not about you Sunny but about your H and the mess he has made of things.
Back to the basics of concentrating on you and your kids .
My trip was great , if a little tiring , met friendly considerate people everywhere . I will update my thread one day.