I believe everybody that tried to help lost phil has realized that bludgeoing him (sp) with the truth has no more effect than trying to do that to our MLC spouse.He is not ready to listen yet.Even though it was well meaning, it fell on deaf ears. We must continue to pray that the Lord can speak to his heart and humble him.For his wife and kids sake,as well as his own.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
Craig, I cannot believe how similar our situations are, although my h had/is having an affair. But we have not had a cross word (ok, we did twice) in 15 months. We are cordial and kind to each other like good neighbors.
I do not push, I just live my life. I ofter wonder if something will change. I think he is waiting for our son to graduate high school in June - though I am not sure. I have to wonder what is going to make my h change his mind.
This civility can get to you though, cant it? Sometimes I just want to shake him and ask him what is he thinking?
But I know that God has a plan and I trust in Him.
I find that the nicer we are to them, the nicer they are to us. I've seen it happen on the board a few times. It is really an area of this that we can control I think.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
