I can't thank you properly for your posts. I'm glad you are taking the time to check in on me. I agree that I need to stop communicating w/ her, but for legal reasons last night, I did engage in a "text" conversation w/ W.
I was going to call and get her to discuss the "sleep over" on tape, but when she sent the text, I saw it as an opportunity to get her to admit to what she did as well as to see how she was going to try and defend herself. I have her on-record now saying he spent the night and that it was the same as a girlfriend staying. She also said "D doesn't know the difference" so that is recorded as well.
I could have let it go and maybe should have, but I felt compelled to take some action here b/c our custody situation is still undecided. I wasn't really trying to convince her of anything, but more of putting the issue out there for the record so I have proof of it when she decides to lie about it in court.
I'm talking w/ my DB coach (Jody) on Wednesday morning and I'll see how she thinks I should go and should have gone. I'd rather have stood up for my D than be asked why I didn't question it later, I guess.
However, I don't want to talk w/ W. I really don't. This is the 2nd man in 6+ months she's introduced to D in a prominent role and I'm sure this isn't the last by any stretch. I can only hope I can do some damage control for D's sake very soon.
Maybe I am a little bit sick, but I completely agree w/ you that I need to stop trying to convince her and myself. There isn't anything I can do now.
