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It is a shame it may take years for him to see what the damage was....a lifetime wasted.

Yep, feelings slipping away.

I don't want to hate him though, I need to find a place where we can still communicate for the kids...

This marriage could have worked, beautifully even. It's a shame one of us couldn't see that. But I accept it, and I'm ready to face the new life ahead of me.



Sister, you and I are in the same spot emotion-wise. I am thinking of you.

The theater tickets would have hurt me. And yes, I might have even chopped off a comment like yours. But BFM is right, short and to the point. All business.

You know, MIL said to me this morning "H will get to the point where he deeply regrets losing you." And I said to her "He might, but it will be very sad because it will probably be too late to turn back". She agreed. I know people mean well when they say "He'll regret it down the road", but that is just sad when that happens.

(((cinders))))