Well, Jody is my DBcoach too (& ITH too - I think). So we are on the same path kind of. Same type of DB outline. Ah, feel lucky with the contact you have w/your W. I say you are lucky to see your W every 10 days - last time I saw my H was July 31st. Note the babysteps -it will help you feel like you aren't stuck. Stay positive & be happy - you are in a good place. \:\)

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)