I can see how you can go from #2 to #3, but the jump from #1 to #2 is pretty tricky. Looks like you're coasting with #1 (which is sooooo much farther from where I am, so count your blessings!).
BTW, dunno if you should be planning LRT at this moment. Seems like you have a good thing going, so why go dark? Out of curiosity, did your Mt. Everest trip come up in your conversations? You gonna climb that bad boy? I'm wondering if something that fantastical (compared to what you said you were - couch potato) might jolt her enough to show some concern for your well being and safety (even though you might only be there to party it up with the Sherpas then go home). Perhaps this could provide a backdoor to moving on to stage 2 and beyond. Just floating some stuff out there...
You're much farther ahead in this than me, so if I had one tiny piece of advice, I'd tell you to compare your sitch now to when the bomb was dropped. Looks to me like two totally different worlds, so steady as she goes w/ #1 and let her set the pace.
- Me = 32 y/o - WAW = 32 y/o - M = 2.5 yrs, T = 12.5 yrs - No kids - Bomb, WAW moved out, D filed = 8/15/08