You may want to review Lan's threads for some inspiration.
Hi John
My piecing isn't perfect but we are moving in the right direction. I think a big part of our reconciliation is that my W actually wants it to work, and is working on it, no big Hollywood statements just a slow gradual crawl back to our M. From what I see your W dipped her toes back into your M and backed out for whatever reason, or more accurately created the environment where you would feel you had no alternative to back out.
I don't have any advice at the moment but I'm one of your friends who will keep in touch and keep following your story.
