Cont. from previous post.... He came to visit one night at about 3mo out of house and was upset afraid he was losing me. Is missing me and cares for me a lot. Afraid our friends are too involved and think that they will make me change my mind about him and not allow him to have a 180 blah, blah. He kissed me that night and a little more but things went right back to the way they have been, no movement forward.
He always always has to give me hugs when he sees me that is not new, however the last two times he has visited he has been giving me compliments like I look real good or look real cute. Our 6yr anniv is coming up and I broke DB rules and texted him today and it went like this.. Me-Want an adrenaline rush? H-Sure whats up, Me-Parasailing this weekend you pick how high, H-Sounds pretty awesome. I already made plans w/Charlie and his boys to go four wheeling. H again-Are you even asking me to go? Are you ready for that yet? Was I jumping the gun, Me-Just thought it would be fun, no worries, its not that complicated. I have not heard anything since. I don't know what to think of any of this. It does not seem to me that he wants a D hasn't asked. He also is very bigging on giving me hugs unless it is a bad day for him he gives me these long hugs holding and rubbing my back. Should I ask him to stop?
I am so encouraged by your strength and think that everyone is doing a great job. I have really appreciated reading about your sitch's b/c it gives me hope that if we can get through this how great our M can be! It is just so crazy to be reading these posts and to be thinking to myself, I am writing the same thing. Take care and I am anxious to see anymore progression with your sitch!
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08
