Originally Posted By: butterflymom
No, nothing will happen. I don't expect him to come running back because he thinks he's lost you.

I didn't mean it like that. I do think, however, that over time, little by little things like that would begin to sink in with him.

You may never even know it, but they will. Subtle things over time make more difference than you can imagine.

I'm sorry he's acted like such an a$$ and that you are starting to feel your feelings slipping away.

I can totally understand it though.

it's definitely HIS loss.

Praying for you!

BFM


Yep, it MAY sink in over time....but I truly doubt it. He is in a world unknown to others.

He rules there.

It is a shame it may take years for him to see what the damage was....a lifetime wasted.

Yep, feelings slipping away.

I don't want to hate him though, I need to find a place where we can still communicate for the kids...

This marriage could have worked, beautifully even. It's a shame one of us couldn't see that. But I accept it, and I'm ready to face the new life ahead of me.

BFM, thanks SO MUCH, your words are always SPOT ON ! And as you know, I've always felt you 'get' me when I talk about H. Thank you !

No more frills to the mails. Short and to the point.

Hope all is well with you and favorite weirdo ! xxxxx


Love Cinders xxx

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