I am fairly new to this site and I have been following your posts. I am so sorry for what you are going through, what we all are going through. My sitch is familiar, Me-30, H-30, M-6yrs., T-14, Twin D-2. 1st Bomb in Jan. not sure if wants M anymore. 2nd Bomb moving out does not want to work on it in May. I am almost certain of a OW-21 from his work. She is the receptionist and is going through a D herself. He will not admit anymore than friends and I have not asked since May anything about her. I have been DBing my butt off and have had a few positive things happen.
Me-30 H-30 M-6yrs T-14yrs Twin D's-2 Bomb-1/01/08 Left Home 2/01/08 (rented a room) Back Home 4/02/08 Left Home 5/08/08 (moved into own apt.) OW-21 5/29/08