It's been a busy time. My FIL is in the hospital. He had some issues with his hernia and that caused a blockage in his intestines (as I understand). Everything started backing into his system and basically poisoning him. His body started to shut down. He had surgery on Sat. night. When he stabilizes, they'll get the infection under control and then go after a problem he's having with his aorta, which is enlarged. The nurse told H last night that he's stable but he has a ways to go. My BIL told us not to come down yet. He said to wait and see how the next few days go. If not earlier, we'll likely head down on Thursday to see him. D4 sat down last night and wrote in a card for him.
D4 starts computer class at daycare tomorrow. She's been bugging me to sign her up so I did. She's so excited. She and I also attended church together yesterday. I wanted to check out a couple of churches in the area. We went to one yesterday that I really liked. She's not a shy girl and she popped right out of the pew yesterday when they asked for all the children to come up front for the children's sermon. No fear!! She's very excited to start Sunday School too. I'd like to check out one or two other churches, but I got a good feeling with this one. I guess someone above wanted me to go yesterday, as the sermon was about relationships, broken promises, forgiveness and regaining trust. D4 explained to me how the pastor told them that if they break someone's trust, they need to say they're sorry and if someone breaks theirs, they need to try to forgive.
H and I haven't really had a huge break through in any type of R conversation, but we've been talking more. Just about the small things that we hadn't talked about in a long time. H and I have allowed each other closer to one another, and not just in an intimate way. I'm not sure at this time what all of this means...what our time spent together means. Only time will tell. I know a conversation is due and it will come in time.
Have a great day.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
