Originally Posted By: karen43
Originally Posted By: Starshyne
He is just so nice and kind to me. He really listens to me and jokes around with me. It is a very nice change from what I was accustomed to.

Sara
Wow! Wow! Wow! He sounds wonderful!!! Does he have a (tall) brother??? \:\) Karen


LOL Karen! No he is an only child. He isn't the best looking man in the world (balding, is a little chubby, etc) but he has such a great personality. I really like how he said that he is interesting in having a relationship with me in the future, but since I just got divorced, he didn't want to rush into anything, so we should just keep hanging out and see where it goes. This is the best thing for both of us right now. I have only known this man for a month (besides the fact that we were in the exact same 2nd grade class!) but I already feel very comfortable with him.

Is it bad that I now think that ending my marriage (while it still wasn't ever what I wanted or wished for) might actually have been a somewhat good thing for me? I feel so much more like myself now than I have felt in the past 7 years. Being with my now ex husband was a lot like caring for a small child. I am not free from that burdon.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08