Feel for you my friend. You said you piece, got it off your chest, made her realize that all will not be rosy. Hurts like hell and shakes you to the core of who you are.
Now, need to keep the chin up her and tell yourself that you DESERVE better than this. You control your response to her actions. She does not control dedicate your happiness. You control that. Go back to all the DB actions and view this as the start of the rest of your life. Take all your energy and make it work for you, not against you.