Hi T2L and Hope!

This thread is great! I look forward to jumping on every day to read other people's comments and make posts myself.

I'm so happy for you Hope! Sounds like things are moving the way you want them too!

T2L I did read the article. It was awesome! Very insightful! Thanks for sharing it... I feel for your son. Our H have no idea the impact they are having on our kids. I wish they could see what happens at home when they are not there.

Today is a rough day for me...its our first year anniversary and I am fighting myself to not send him an email or text. I haven't gotten anything of course... I couldn't help myself so I watched our video and looked at pictures. I just couldn't stop asking myself all of those questions... Why? What happened? Is this really happening?

Anyways, just trying to get through the day... I just want him back... this is awful.


Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.