That is the only way to do it. I think you have been doing fantastic, Jen, and XH is probably scratching his head thinking WTF??? Remember, the initial reaction may be why are you doing all this? But eventually he will see that you are starting to live a little and not necessarily revolving all your time around him. Its good for your ego, and your R.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
[quote] [I told him I didn't apologize to her for him. I did it for me. I feel much better about the whole EA now. /quote]
Note to Jen. When we do good things for ourselves we are practicing self-care. Good for you. So if it works we do more of it. Keep it up, it will empower you. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
jen- you see what needs to change so quickly. that is the true mark of a db pro. you didnt let it swallow you up. you realized it was an error and then stopped it. fixed it and are moving on.
sorry you had a painful interaction...cleaning up the mess is always the worst part.
Pisces M 31 H 32 M 7 yrs S 5/10 Beginning Contact! Vibes Hot Tub Cheese
Hi Lola, Coach and P! I'll try without putting so much pressure on myself (gets me in trouble)
XH dropped off D this morning. He stuck around for a few minutes. We spoke a bit about later today and also about a couple of our clients. He had to run because he had some things that he needed to do. He says that he has "things to do" a lot and I think it's one of his ways of pretending he is busy. I can see him sitting in a cafe drinking a coffee and checking his email. If he was so busy then we'd have more clients lol
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I saw King Fu panda this weekend. I liked that phrase about the mind being as water, when it's "upset" you cant see clear in it? Good your mind is back to "still" state.
Jen, have I told you I admire you? You are so strong and determined. Something good is going to come your way (FG's words). K
Hi K! Thanks for the kind words. I want to see that movie bad. I think I'll download it since it's no longer in English here.
You posted at a great time XH was here to pick up D and your post (which I read via my phone) made me smile. I wonder if he was curious what I was smiling about You might have helped my GAL without realizing it lol.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
I loved that movie...there were so many quotes in it to make you find patience in the mind!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
