I still have a hard time figuring out what to say too.
And if I don't think about it when people ask if I am M...my unthinking response is "yes". And then I have to decide whether to correct that, or expand on it, or just move on.
I hope things with work settle down in the not too distance future.
(((Kris)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2