Hey P! I don't think you're ungrateful at all! I'm so happy that you finally could talk to your bro. It must take a load off of you. I think you're doing the right thing in not accepting his money. Money for some is a way of controlling others and I'd be worried that your bro might try. Maybe when you guys have kids then he can set up an education fund for them??
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
