Hi all,
Need some quick advice. My H has been looking at furnished apts and planning on moving within a month or so. We have met seperately with the MC. Originally he said he had an open mind but is in the IDNLY stage and cannot remember anything good about the marriage.
We are meeting together as a couple the first time with the MC. How should I handle this if according to DB I should not beg, plead, tell him I love H etc. I know he is going to be talking about leaving. How should I express myself without going back to "same of the more". Very frustrated. Can anyone give me some suggestions. I have all types of crazy stuff going through my help. Help this newbie who is trying to keep it in control!


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09