i know

i am all for reeming them

but then again

i am fortunate (?) LSS has no contact and the hardys dad skipped out when they were babies

so i don't have to coparent with anyone

however...when Baboo's ex was 2 hours late to pick up and half an hour late to drop off and hadn't fed BB or even put her in clean clothes fromt he day before and the poor thing smelled like an ashtray, i bit my tongue
almost off i might add
and
did laundry in a different room while my brain bled from the effort of keeping quiet