Thanks so much and apologies if I may have hi-jacked, I'm new to forums and etiquette. Sorry again. I did red alot of all the threads on here. It helped me.

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca