When you surround yourself with enablers who tell you it's ALL THEM, NONE of it is your fault, then you do more harm than good. I have seen that the behavior of the LBS has more of an impact on how the M work out. Of course responsibility also goes to the walk away, but the fact is, we are not responsible for them. We are not them, we are not our M's. Once we take responsibility for our own lives and let God take control, while happily married, separated or divorced, only then can our life work out the way it should.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
