Hi T2L. No is it a book or for couples? Also need some help from my posse here...We go tomorrow night to meet together with the MC (we have both been going on our own). I know H is going to talk about him moving out, telling our D etc. Not sure on what to say if I am not supposed to talk about the future, working on the marriage etc. What I want to do is slug him but I know that is not acceptable. Really confused on how I should approach it. Our MC is a Christian counselor and seems invested in trying to save marriages but to date my H does not seem to be swayed at all. T2L -- pat me on the back again...pat pat pat. I was going to go home for lunch and H calls me on cell phone saying he tried to call me at my desk and I did not answer, he was planning on going out to the island (where we live) to look at some furnished apartmants. I told him that I was probably going home, he says he will stop by after looking (more of the same behavior to talk about the apts, bills etc.), I had my keys in my hand -- hung up the phone and went to the Subway here and got a salad. Why should I go home and put up with that. a mini-180. I should not have answered the phone when he called which would have been better. But we keep trying. Have you heard from your H? How did the weekend go? k
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
