Donna said: He said his dad will always be his dad; it was more out of concern for me. Ugh. I said not to worry about it; I am a big girl and will be just fine.
So, even my children have accepted this whole mess before I have, completely. And I have to do a better job at showing them that I will be ok, that I am strong enough to go on and have, make, a wonderful life.
This is all good for you to realize. Your kids need to know that you're the strong one and will be there for them no matter what. It was sweet of your son to want to write the letter. He wants to take care of his mom. You've got great kids, Donnna.