My W is pissed at me - would not take my call - so I sent her this e-mail:
I am sorry to anger you and burst your secret Affair - You are still Legally Married by the way - Legal Separation is not a Divorce.
How am I supposed to feel ?
I hope someday you can understand why I am standing up for my family... This is not right.
I do not know if you were trying to protect me from being hurt or wanting to hid the affair from me.
You think you are in love with this other man - this other man who broke up a family, ended a marriage, and took your daughter away from you and away from me half of the time - why would you love another man who would do that to another family - what are his morals ???
I hope you think it is worth it - you are destroy lives - and you are too blinded by love to see it. - It is not love - it is infatuation - I know that you could not love someone who has no morals
In a few years you will probably learn that it was all a mistake - Too late to correct it.
I am so sorry you cannot see what is right.
I do love you very much - I wish you could see that instead."
My marriage is over - I couldn't just sit by doing nothing without documenting how I feel. I hope she someday understands.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day