I'm pretty good, thanks! I actually let D spend the night at H's place. I was a wreck and hated him for even asking me, but it turned out well and she was fine. I had a good talk with H yesterday when he brought her home and feel that I can leave him be for now. He said that he's going to talk to someone, a shrink (he's never wanted to before!), to see why he's like this and why he's so angry all the time. Said all he wants to do it work to keep busy and forget things and then go and sleep (depression?). I asked him if he plans on working on us and he said "probably most definately", so now I'm good. He needs to work this out. I can't focus on if there's really a OW involved or not. SHe's not my problem or concern. SHe's only my concern when it comes to D and that's it.