XOM was very different from me as well. And during the fantasy, she felt that he was the answer to all my shortcomings. Don't believe a word of it from the WAS. Their judgement towards OM/OW is skewed and any statement regarding the shortcomings of the LBS is simple self-justification and not to be taken personally or seriously.
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