Our friend said that he will keep H talking about things and tell him that he can't hide from it and that he can talk to him or to talk to a C but not to hide from it and work on it.
SO2 Busy weekend I'll post on that though when I have more time.
Nik
Things are just running along right now as usual but. Not bad but could be better if he would talk.
Haven't talked about Retro yet as to much is going on that I'll post on later.
AMY!!!!!
I am in tears here. I needed the kick in the ass to keep me from leaving when i really am not ready to give up yet. Especially after H's comments about YES the vehicles and the two of us working all the time. I see that H has been a great povider and have told him this many times. He has done so much for this family and we have it pretty darn good, we just work extra hard for it. Im'e glad for my children to see our work ethic. H is so very knowledgable in so many things. Everyone calls him for something.
It has been a long time and H doesn't seem to want to work on himself at all Just wants it to disappear. It' won't and I think he's starting to realize this and thus talked to friend and told him he/we were having problems and that he caused them. A start I think and I shall stay to see what happens. I am going to talk to him about Retro.
I am trying to figure out if I should be doing something different. I do confront him when nessesary hoping that it will make him think about his issues. I think it works to a point.
At this point he still says no to C I will give him the literature for Retrovaille and hope that he will at least do that. I can hear it now though, it's on a weekend that he's scheduled to work.(he does have vacation days)
In your OP is he in the end stages? Im'e just wondering not that we can't count on that but he went from being more present in the R to withdrawn more and more depressed.
Iv'e read what you have posted to others and wanted a point of view from someone who had been there that can keep kicking my rear back into the ring.
I had read your post when you were ready to throw in the towel, Ime glad you hung in there. One reason I looked you up. You are one interesting chick!
Thanks
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
