That is the only way to do it. I think you have been doing fantastic, Jen, and XH is probably scratching his head thinking WTF??? Remember, the initial reaction may be why are you doing all this? But eventually he will see that you are starting to live a little and not necessarily revolving all your time around him. Its good for your ego, and your R.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
