How to start from scratch in 12 Mos Separation ?

[SingleDad]

I am coming to the realization that my wife has had this boyfriend before the divorce - and is getting divorced because she wants to be with the boyfriend.

It has all been lies - and there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. There are no techniques that can de used to end the affair. No techniques that can get my family back.

I am at a loss.

There is nothing I can do to save my marriage - my W actually says we are divorced and she is not my wife - yet we have a legal separation - not a divorce.

That means she is having an affair - and doesn't want the guilt.

So I just have to Get A Life - and forget about everything else.... I have been trying - but I can't

I am just pathetic...