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Re: AMYC AmyC #1584164 09/08/08 04:47 AM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 7,941 SW USA M MidwesternGirl Member
MidwesternGirl Member M Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 7,941 SW USA	I totally agree that prayer is a powerful weapon. Thanks for sharing. The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584245 09/08/08 08:20 AM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 724 Midwest--USA D Dawn of Hope Member
Dawn of Hope Member D Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 724 Midwest--USA	Amy, I always pay special attention when I see that you have posted to a thread I am reading. I SO appreciate that you bring a somewhat different viewpoint to this board than what most of us have, and I greatly value your advice. You have a way of cutting through the moonshine that is quite refreshing! $;\)$ If you have a chance, I would be very grateful if you would drop by my thread and share some of your bounteous DBing wisdom with me as regards my sitch. I think I am doing okay with abiding by what I have been told to do by the experts, but I'm not seeing a lot of progress and I wonder how I can improve my sitch/my life given my sitch. I have to apologize in advance; I have a tendency to write LOOOONG posts! Sorry about that; I am working on being more concise. Any thoughts you have to offer me will be MOST appreciated! Thanks for being such a shining light on this board!! $\:\)$ Blessings to you on your journey; I look forward to reading the write-up of it that you are working on. Peace, Dawn Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584248 09/08/08 08:49 AM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118 P poet Member
poet Member P Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118	"Trust the answer.. not the moment." Forrest, this is so true. The answer is the realization, the truth behind the lie, the needle in the haystack of confusion. I'm looking for the answers now, and when/as I find them, I begin to see the reasons for letting go...of my husband. AmyC, Thank you for your comments on this board. I did ask you to check in on me, but I realize now that you are writing all the answers for us. Thank you for doing this. I did notice you are on the boards more infrequently right now, and it is because you are writing. I will be here when you have it written. Also, thank you for the two answers you just gave me, the negative treatment and the ways in which I spoke to my husband, "the guilt, shame and self-punishment," etc. I am glad for this thread; thank you to Bridgestone. Peace, peace, peace, poet

Re: AMYC poet #1584292 09/08/08 12:31 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Thanks poet but I don't know that I'm writing the answers to anything for anyone. More than likely not. MLC is not one size fits all and walking back from one is harder than you can imagine. It is easy for me to imagine that a lot of people would choose to live with the regret, shame and remorse instead. But on the other hand, an LBS can foster the right environment to which a MLCer CAN return. Butterfly mom did it. So did BND. So you could learn more from them than you can from me. But if you want some indications as to just how to jacked up the MLC mind can be...well that I can provide . Last edited by AmyC; 09/08/08 12:31 PM.

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584375 09/08/08 02:18 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	hey Amy

Re: AMYC fig #1584376 09/08/08 02:19 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Hey doofus! $\:\)$

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584431 09/08/08 02:59 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 9,916 Kansas... KSChick* Member
KSChick* Member Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 9,916 Kansas...	LOL it's kinda nice to see a thread for you - even if you didn't start one $;\)$ ....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"... me=ok /D'd since 7/07 D=ok

Re: AMYC KSChick* #1584446 09/08/08 03:06 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia A AmyC Member
AmyC Member A Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 12,896 Virginia	Blech. What happened to that doofus, "Bridgestone" (as poet called him LOL) anyway? Quote: I am glad for this thread; thank you to Bridgestone. ROFLMAO again!! Anyway, he stuck me with this freakin thing and ran! Last edited by AmyC; 09/08/08 03:07 PM.

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584454 09/08/08 03:08 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 2,319 Wisconsin phoenyx Member
phoenyx Member Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 2,319 Wisconsin	when you say doofus, i automaticly answer. I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.

Re: AMYC AmyC #1584457 09/08/08 03:09 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634 J Jeanette1120 Member
Jeanette1120 Member J Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634	Hehehehe.......are we advertising tires on here? Well, I look at it this way. We are either pick apart your brain and totally dive into the depths of your thoughts..... Or we can PLAY on it all day long! Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us. Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice! :-)

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