Thanks for replying. I was beginning to feel alone.
It's just that I wonder how I can save my marriage when H lives with OW (an 1 1/2 hr drive from our home) and her kids and our S's are older so H really doesn't go through me for weekends (which S16 doesn't do - his choice), holidays, etc. H really has no need to ever speak to me except for the very rare occassion. It's just that I spent 21 yrs. talking to this man almost daily and now he doesn't even acknowledge my presence when we're in the same room.
So, if there's no communication, how can the marriage be saved?
