Hi everyone! Thank you for your post to me!! Wow!!! I am so amazed at how many H's go for OW that they normally would stay away from. I do believe between MLC & these OW knew how to manipulate & brainwash them. The woman my H is with is 1 1/2 years older than him! My H is 6 months older than me but he has gray hair & I do look younger than he does, she doesn't. I've seen a picture of her.
I agree, I doubt it will last long but who knows! He is in a mess right now I believe. She thought he had money & according to my SIL she still doesn't know he doesn't have any money. I don't know about that but I have a feeling it will come out very soon. His plan was to get money off the sale of this house, didn't happen! Plus he didn't expect the lawyers fees to be over 15,000. And, he paid all of it except 3000.00 that came out of our savings, well 6,000.00 came out of savings so I look at that like I paid 3,000.00, but he paid the rest.
Poet, I'm not on FB & don't really know what that is. If you can tell me what I need to do to sign up for that I will be happy to & talk to you privately. Believe me, I do know what you are going thru!!! At first I was like you & didn't want to go after my H b/c I wanted us to stay friends. I talked to several lawyers & the one I picked just sounded like he was mean & would go after him. Not mean to me but upset b/c he said your H sounds like he has OW, I didn't know at that time. I wasn't going to use him at first b/c retainer was 3500.00 & I told my Dad I didn't want to be mean. My Dad called me the next day & said hire that lawyer, you need a good one & I'm so glad I did. I wouldn't have gotten anything if I had not. Let me know how to get on FB & I'll be glad to talk with you!!!!
((((HUGS)))) to all, I so much appreciate you all being here for me!!!!!!
