" I think I am doing okay with abiding by what I have been told to do by the experts, but I'm not seeing a lot of progress and I wonder how I can improve my sitch/my life given my sitch."
It is not so much what you can do but how your h is progressing and sometimes you just have to sit back and let things be. Patience is what it is going to take on your part as well as letting him be and allowing him to go thru this journey he is on.
And remember, prayer is powerful and we do not always see what God is doing either.
You just need lots of time, patience, and letting him be.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19