Think I am gonna go with the gift. Nothing huge but something that says I remembered this special day for you. Going with a peronalized card but it will only have a few words on it and it won't be anything about "oh I want you back" or any crap like that.
I did find something on the computer though and I don't know to feel about it. Found that she had been looking at sites that talk about how to get your ex back after divorce. Since this happened she has always said that we would have to start from the beginning and meet each other as strangers. Divorce is at lest 12 months away. So I am a little disturbed that she is looking that long term already, as in if I divorce him how could he get me back later or how could I get him back laters. YIKES!!!!!
- H (me, LBS) = 33 y/o - WAW = 36 y/o - M = 7 yrs, T = 11 yrs - S9, D6 - Bomb dropped = 8/9/08 - WAW moved out = 9/19/08. - Hope = faint. My Sitch