I guess I'm just questioning now whether DBing works with someone who is so depressed. I know begging and pleading wouldn't work either, but I just feel like I am letting him destroy the relationship by not being more of a presence in his life. The longer I'm away, the easier it is for him to close the door, or so it feels.
Anyway my heart is in my throat now. I'm at the Wroclaw airport. I will take a cab from the Dublin airport directly to my house. H in all likelihood will not be there, and if not I'll spend the afternoon there.
If he is, well then I guess I'll have to keep my time there very brief.
Everyone please think good thoughts for me. I will post later with any interesting updates...
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
