Oh Donna, I'm so sorry. Plain and simple, it hurts. I think it hurts us so much because WE didn't choose this, WE didn't want this. I just heard my ex is getting remarried sometime this month (guess it could have already happened)...to one of his former employees here (he moved out of state to start a new job and I was to follow only that's when he decided he wanted to be single). So, now, as they say, there is more to the story.... Now I know that he is an even bigger liar than I thought and now I wonder what part of my 16+ year marriage was real? Your ex has moved on and although it may seem like common courtesy to us for them to at least communicate these kinds of decisions to us, in their minds, they see no need. Here comes that narcissist thing again.... Just know thoughts and prayers are with you. Megan
