I understand what he's talking about regarding guilt.
The weight of it CAN paralyze a person - but so can indecision, which is probably the most prevalent culprit at this point.
Between that and fear, guilt and shame, reaching out in an effort to discover HOW to build a bridge BACK is almost unfathomable to a walk-away spouse.
Besides the much needed tools you get from here and other sites like it, specific prayer against those very obstacles is your best weapon of OFFENSE. I say "offense" because you are the woman that has the God-given right to stand. That's powerful.
Brandnewday has the best testimony here proving that prayer works and it can indeed change everything.
