Hey sweetie, well I am feeling good about how your wife has reacted to the news about the bank saying no to the extra help, but at the same time I have been concerned all along about you two getting in over your heads in financial debt. I know you have just come out of a bad stitch and I would hate to see you exchange it for a different one......that being finacial pressure. It can destroy a MR just as certain as an affair. So, please, Lan, be careful. I know you are trying to please your wife......and I think that she has finally seen some things that she needed to see. I just hope that it has not cost you two more than you could afford before she finally realized that it is not the great house and the "material" things that are so important, but the love between you and her.
Well, I know I'm sounding like a mama, but I can't help it. I know what pressure from a lot of debt can do to a couple and I don't want that to happen to you. At least, she is seeing this as the two of you being in it together. I don't know at what point you are on the house, but is it at a place that could be put on "hold" for a while until some of it is paid off......or does it have to be all completed now?
Well, take care. You know I am always interested about what is going on in your life......and I am care a lot.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
