Thank you for posting to my thread. I haven't stopped by your thread yet but I will. It does sound like our stitch's are similar. My H stayed here in the house with me for 5 months after he told me he wanted a D, he moved to the guest room. But if he had not stayed here I would not have found out about OW. I did lots of snooping! I even got into his emails from work, he threatened to press criminal charges against me, but he was only trying to get me to go along with what he wanted. I had a PI run a report on this OW & found out she had been M at least 3 times, my H hates stuff like that. Anyway, she had redone his resume & sent it to him on the 4th of Sept. he told me on the 6th. I know she chased after him & he let her catch him. I agree I believe they will reap what they sow. I just find it strange that my H didn't even know her, only met her on a scuba diving trip in June & 2 months later he tells me he wants a D, she lives in another state. He didn't go & see her in between those times either, so they only got to know each other by email & phone calls.
No worries on the long post, I enjoy reading & love the support!!!