Advice-Husband moved in with OW(I'm a Newby)

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Hope3343,
Awe thanks for the group hug. I'm soooo proud of you! You did it! I know he was wondering. Keep it up GAL!!!!! That's awesome. That's what attractive. I know that your husband is wondering. And the best part beyond what he thinks is that you felt empowered and calm for the 1st time in a while. It's because you had the control instead of waiting on his every move and he had the control. Keep going. Find hobbies, do the gym, keep him guessing and your getting stronger the whole time.

Marisol35. I can totally relate. I feel like I'm not some dumb back up plan in case it doesn't work out for you. You know what guys, it's only been4 months since I found out and yeah I miss him terribly and have bouts of loneliness and then sometimes I feel like why on earth would I want you back. Your living with her and you lash out constantly your not even in the friend category. I'm trying to hold out but boy it's getting hard. My mind goes nuts and wanders seeing them together and happy and being a family. So hard. So tired of thinking. Did you guys get to read that article I posted? Got feedback from friends they were blown away by it. If not its here: http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19930501-000027.html

Feeling a bit down today. Really wish I didn't want him. Almost no contact with him. Just hard, but you all know this. I like our thread to feels like fam.....