Thank you so much for all your ideas and your very specific instructions that I get back to him PRONTO!!!
I can't handle a "no" at this point, and even if he gave me one, I don't think I would give up.
I totally forgot about the turning point episode in your sitch... I want to go back and re-read your threads to get more juicy details!! I have been thinking about your suggestion a lot. I'm not sure I could honestly from my HEART tell him I believe he made a good decision. I DO believe that I think I understand why he chose to leave and I am (maybe perversely) extremely grateful for how it has motivated to get my [censored] together like probably nothing else would. Can you help me work on a declaration??
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Is there someway that you can say / do something really big that says that you still love him but puts no pressure on him to respond?
this is an amazing question. Do you have any suggestions????
I do have a 3 page letter (edited down from... 19 pages HA HA HA!!) that is all apology... maybe I could use some of that??
I am a bit mystified by these new possibilities surfacing on my thread, but nevertheless, EXCITED!!!
now I am going to respond to your second post LOVELOVELOVE t
